I see things so clearly now as to what was happening with my H. My MIL told me that he had told her that she needed to either leave her H and her 2 yo son, or he was done. Well she is still with him. He stopped seeing her for a while I was told but I know they have seen each other in the past 2 weeks or so. At one point at guess they were going to live in a house with another women who said both of them could live there and leave her son behind with her H.

I see that what he was trying to do was decide between her and me and when she wouldn't leave in Jan. he wanted to come back to me. He emailed me, called me all the time. Then somewhere she must of shown back up in his life.

I don't know how to handle this. How do I deal with him coming back to me because she wouldn't leave her H? I know he has to be going through alot as I believe he loves this OW. I am so so confused on what to do at all.