this is my first time here so if i post in the wrong place please bear with me i need help... i found out my W was/is keeping thing from me and lieing to me. found out W been getting to close to her friends/guys, to close to think nothing is going on and with what i found out it just makes matters worse. everytime i try to approach W with this matters W thinks im attacking her and the first thing out of her mouth is "what u think im cheating on u?" or "i dont now". i feel i cant trust her anymore and she nows it but she doesnt seem to want to make things better. she prefers to go out with her friends to make her feel better/forget about the problem in hand. im finding more clues to her affair/if she having one or is it just me?. should i just play along till she accidently says something that exposed her completely or what? i dont now what to do anymore. i feel im the only 1 trying in this marriage. what should i do? i feel depressed all the time all i do and think is of what shes doing/what i might find out next. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

<small>[ June 14, 2004, 01:16 PM: Message edited by: thepics ]</small>

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You might try posting on the general questions board. There is lots more traffic up there.

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