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#474223 08/14/04 11:20 AM
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Does anyone have some suggestions on how to begin Plan A? My WS has had many EAs and PAs over the last 10 years. My teenage DD is an emotional wreck over this. I have to act NOW...where do I start to bring up something I have chosen to ignore for so long? Share the POJA? Insist on counseling? The current A is mentally unstable (newly widowed) and WS isn't likely to give her up easlily, if at all.

WS has been away on a trip (alone? not likely) but returns soon.

Help?

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jmh - Read all about Plan A in the link on my signature line. Let your daughter know that you have a plan for this.

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Thank you for your support. I also did some "research" today and found very little evidence to support the claim by a "friend" that this had been going on for years. One+, yes, but not the many that I had been lead to believe.

I am so excited to have help here...I really want to get things in order and continue what has been a good marriage.


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