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I just recently found out my husband has a OM and after we have talked and he says he is not sure what he wants and feels he is in love with, we have been together for 7 years and although it wasnt always,"ideal" we always were ther for each other. Now all I have done is cry and made sure he knows that I love him and want our marriage to work.....Now what!!!!!!!
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Welcome to marriage builders. You might want to post on the general questions forum as there is more traffic there.
Did I read right that your husband has an other man? Or did you mean OW?
Start in Plan A. You can read all about it on the link in my signature line.
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Sorry, I mean OW and I will look at start at plan A
Thanks
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Good, check out Plan A, which is the starting point. If that does not work, then there is Plan B.
Keep reading and posting here and we will help you. It is miserable when you first find out, but does get much better. There is much more traffic in the general questions forum, and you will get lots of support there.
I'm glad you found this site in time.
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I am so greatfull for this site but there is so much confusion, I feel like she is going out of her way to make sure he doesn't workout his marriage, even though he told her he is having secound thoughts about leaving our family, she still is not budging on the letting go process.
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I am so greatfull for this site but there is so much confusion, I feel like she is going out of her way to make sure he doesn't workout his marriage, even though he told her he is having secound thoughts about leaving our family, she still is not budging on the letting go process.
Dazed and confused
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dazed - Hope you will read all of the stuff here, and post on general questions. There are a lot of us here, going thru the same thing.
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