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I need help with a Plan B Letter
#474427 11/07/04 09:19 PM
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My situation is as follows, I am a WW. I had a child out of wedlock and I have left my husband because he was verbally and physically abusive even before the affair. You can go to the pregnancy/child section of the Infidelity category and look under "Had an affair out of wedlock, husband abusive."

One of the people recommended me to come here to ask you guys about writing a Plan B letter. I have read about Plan B, but I am unsure on how to write one without upsetting my husband who already has some anger management problems. My situation is very, very difficult since I am now at another state. PLEASE HELP!

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Re: I need help with a Plan B Letter
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Ask on GQII it gets more traffic than this thread. There is a good one on there somewhere already posted but probably a few pages back.

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Re: I need help with a Plan B Letter
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You should NOT go into Plan B.
You and your h seriously need to get some individual counseling.

I had a child out of wedlock
If you are married, you cannot have a child out of wedlock. You mean you had a child from a man who is not your husband.

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