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Joined: Nov 2004
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I just found out a few days ago that my H of 5 years was having an internet affair and met with this girl once.as far as I know, nothing happened yet.he is extremely remorseful and is willing to do anything to save our marriage.I recently left the state and moved back home with our 3 year old daughter to be by family. He is packing our things and selling all he can our of our house to join us in 10 days. We already have a christian counseler ligned up.My question is, do we live together during this? I love him dearly and miss him. I want with all my heart for it to work out. Any help is appreciated.
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Joined: Aug 2004
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Dear SN,
JMO, you should definitely live together during this time. Read the Harley books, and I think you will find that seperations, while sometimes necessary, can place added strains on the M.
Your H broke off the A. Great first step. You have MC lined up. Also great. Now, work on figuring out together what went wrong in your R to let the A happen. Do this together. You need each other.
Blessings to you and your family. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> -------------------------------------------
me-FBS-50 FWH-44 M-20 yrs DD-18 DS-15 DS-9 A-2/03-5/04 DDay-5/8/04 C-5/04-9/04 NC ltr 9/3/04 In recovery with God's help <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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