hey all,<P>First let me say that your support has been very helpful during out difficult time. cw and i are both glad to have someplace to vent and to seek advice, when even our own families dont seem to be an option.<P>On to my topic. I am VERY worried about a report from my daycare provider concerning my daughter. We were told that Gillian has been acting out anger and frustration in daycare recently, getting very angry with the other children when they do not do things that she wants, as well as fighting with other childrenwhen they do things accidentally that upset her. I can see at this point that our arguments and stress are rubbing off on her, and i need to find a way to minimize this effect immediately. <P>The problem i have is this; cw is starting to doubt the ability to work things out, and these day care incidents are solidifying her resolve to NOT want to reconcile. She says that she doesnt think she can do this to our daughter. I just dont know how to make this work, all the kind and supportive things i say get twisted around, and i feel very helpless. All i can do at this point is stay away from the OW and be here for my family. I am at least doing that well. <P>As for the wrestler, he's a short little punk anyhow... i could take him...... <BR>(obvious need for comic releif...)<P>thanks<BR><P>------------------<BR>I used to be good,<BR>I used to be charming,<BR>I used to be Mighty..<P>Oh How the Mighty Hath Fallen.....<P>

Mighty~<BR>If anything I would point her to the point that this is even more indication that you all need to work things out between you and I would definately seek counselling for all of you as a family. Your D obviously senses the tension and that is more important than the two of you working it out, she (your D) needs to be able to express herself in a constructive and safe enviorment and the two of you need to know what to do to be more supportive of her. I would discuss this with your W and explain that even if you two don't work out you both have issues and will have to continue to deal with each other and counselling can't hurt only help in dealing with these issues! God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P>