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Have now been seperated 1 week. Wife is staying with friends but I'm fairly certain she is seeing OM. I just assume the worst and try to put it out of my mind and keep busy. Have been doing a lot of reading. Read most of "Winning Your Wife Back Before It's To Late" by Smalley last night. Very Good Stuff! Gives examples of Love Buster behaviors that are extremely common. Really could see myself in some of those. Also lays out a path for the changes we as betrayed need to make before spouse can fall in love with us again. Very much like the Harley's, just in different words so that they reinforce each other. Hope all Plan Aers are doing well. Keep strong, as the only changes we have any control over are those we can make in ourselves.<P> Gale
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HI Gale,<BR>You sound so postive, so well!! It is very nice to read.<BR>Not sure quite where/when it happens but many married couples find that they are barely civil to each other. To me, the theory of lovebsuters is really common courtesy, with a higher ante. YOu have to be decent, then go a step further with your spouse. <BR>Keep reading and then put into practice!!<p>[This message has been edited by cl (edited January 07, 2000).]
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