I'm pretty angry and hurt at the moment. I thought things had been going pretty well between my H and I lately until today. This week he had sent some pretty loving e-mails to me which gave me some hope. Last night as I was leaving work though, I saw him go to meet the OW at his work (we work very close by). I followed him to his work and pulled up next to him to talk. He said he was meeting the OW...I told him I loved him and left. On my way home I called him from the car to talk some more. I asked him if he still planned to go through with the divorce and he said he didn't know. I told him that I was going out to eat w/ his B and SIL tonight and invited him to come with us. He said he didn't know if he could go, but to page him and he would call back.<P>So, I paged him this morning three times and he hasn't called back. I have this strong urge right now to call the OW and let her have a piece of my mind. I would also like to tell her that he has been cheating on her with me!<P>I know that doing this will only love-bust. So, please pray for me to be strong, patient and not let my anger and hurt get the best of me.<P>Thanks for your help!<P>Darlene

I know exactly how you feel. We go along for a time feeling things are going ok. We talk, we have fun and then the next thing you know, he is out with her or visiting her etc and we feel let down again. It is easy for people to say not to let our expectations get high but when you are clinging on to every single little syllable they say, it is hard not to.<P>I am having a hard time today too and my thoughts are with you. Just think of the day when he is yours alone again and it will help you hang on. I believe my "real" husband is in there somewhere and that helps me hang on. Take care.