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We seen om last night. We werer going to dinner. He and his wife pulled up beside of us and blows the horn. And then takes off. What the H@@@ was he thinking. I am so mad. I want to call him tomm and tell him that was incalled for. He acted like my H and i were his damn buddies. What do i do

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I don't have much to say about the OM's behavior except that he sounds weird and unstable. If you are trying to recover in your marriage, don't call OM. Do not contact him at all.

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I agree with NoTrust... don't call!!<P>He sounds like an a**hole, by the way... and his <B>poor wife</B>!<P>Geez...<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Nobody knows what you want except you, and nobody will be as sorry as you if you don't get it. ~Barry Manilow

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Thanks guys! I wont contact him. I couldnt believe it though. I guess he thought that we would be happy to see him or something. It was either that or he may have wanted me to see the wife. Who Knows! It really doesnt matter. I just hated it for H. It was like a slap in the face.<BR>

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Sometimes people do things without thinking... specially things like honking the horn at to shout hello... like as not he regretted it as soon as he did it... imagine his wife, "Who's that, honey?" and his reply, "Uhhhhh..."<BR>Heck, for all you know he's in a world of crap right now, trying to explain...<BR>Anyway, it's irrelevant... no contact, ignore it, forget it. <BR>deut

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Soul,<BR>He could be in a world of crap. Her friend seen he and I at the park in my tracuk. Her friend knows that I drive a chev xtended cab and the tag says DON&NEA. He told her that he was talking to my sister about their marriage. My sister worked with him. After I told her about the affair she quit her job. He is a slick one though. He probably told her that it was my sis's H. Well anyway!<BR>Thanks for the advice!

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hey, no prob.<BR> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>D

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ARGH!! What is up with that????? I don't blame you for being angry! I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I'm glad you decided not to call him. That would only feed his fire. Let it go... <P>Take care....

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I called the bus today where the OM works. They are one of my customers. I taold my friend to tell him. That wasnt the brightest move that me ever made. And that I could be a vindictive person and it was nothing to me or to H to call his wife. He told the OM and they om said ok. He siad he would have no contact at all.


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