Dfloyd01<P>First off I think it's great that your x is coming over and rethinking things! This just goes to show that it is NEVER too late to reconcile.
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<P>As to what you can do tonight...... Number one DO NOT even mention OM! Instead of reasoning with her. SHOW HER just how wonderful life can be with you and your son. <P>Cook along side of her. Clean up after dinner while she spend time with your son. Does she have a favorite desert? If she does have it there, already prepared of course, as a surprise for her. Rent a movie that the two of you enjoyed together when things were good in your marriage, or one that you know she would enjoy watching(even if it is a so called chick flick). Old home vidios of when your son was a baby might help her remember the good times she left behind too if you have any. Make sure the house is clean with a few scented candles burning and a fire in the fire place (if you have one) can set the mood for a warm and cozy night!<P>Make sure you look your best. Does she like you in a certain color or style of clothing? If she does be sure you look as attractive to her as possible.<P>Keep the conversation light, happy and carefree. What she most likley gets from the OM is a life free of preasure. So don't put any preasure on her to come back. <P>I'm sure others will have more and most likely better ideas but this is the best I can do inbetween caring for my sick daughter and running to and from the hospital to see my ill grandmother.<P>I'm on my way to pick up a few new scented candles for my own dinner with my H tonight.
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<P>Good Luck and God Speed<P>FC