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I'm about to loose it! Need advice!
#50397 01/11/00 06:02 PM
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I don't know what to do. See original post under emotional needs-"withdrawel". I feel like when I leave work today to just tell him to go be with her-this is hurting too much. I'm about to go to pieces. How can I ever trust him again if we did make it through this. I truly don't believe there is anyone else for me. But, I can't let him live with me and have an affair. I think he will try and justify it by saying I told you I didn't want to work on the marriage. He has not been harsh verbally.
Re: I'm about to loose it! Need advice!
#50398 01/12/00 12:31 AM
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Molly,<P>Have you read Surviving an Affair by Dr Harley? He talks about how an affair should end and how to deal with the spouse still involved, Plan A as it is known. I may be off base, your profile didn't tell the story and I suppose I could have done a search to read your posts.<P>If I understand you, he's still involved with OW right? You need Plan A right away, you can read about it here on the web site use this forum.<P>Dan
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molly...<P>If you are really confused... there is the difinitve source...I would recommend that you have 2 <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7200_phone.html" TARGET=_blank>telephone counseling sessions</A> ($85US a pop... but well worth it) with <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7010_about.html" TARGET=_blank>Steven W. Harley</A>. Check out the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7000_counsel.html" TARGET=_blank>Counseling Center</A>... and for some specifics... <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7015_fee.html" TARGET=_blank>Fees for Counseling Services</A> and <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7020_sched.html" TARGET=_blank>Scheduling an Appointment</A>!<P>Jim
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#50400 01/12/00 01:41 AM
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Jim is 100% correct, so far it has been the best $190.00 I've spent.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

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