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#5133 08/26/99 04:44 PM
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Just wanted to see if you are doing okay. I've read a few of your posts today and you seem very irritable. Is it just from all the crap that's been going on here or are you having more problems with that H of yours?<P>I really hope things are going okay for you! I know there's been alot of debating here and I too haven't posted much. Afraid of having something I say misinterpreted and slammed. That happened once, and I didn't think I could ever be upset by someone saying something about me that I didn't even know.<P>Have yourself a good night!<P>------------------<BR>Shoni<P><BR>

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Shoni<BR>There are a lot of things wrong. Thanks for caring. Doesn't seem to be much of that going around does there?<BR>Since H's last screwup I have been building to the point of explosion. It is about to happen. You can see that can't you. I don't usually get this irritable. I don't want it to happen here.<BR>Sorry! Hypocrisy is the one thing that pushes me too far.<BR>Tears now. Gotta go. Don't think I should come back. Thanks for being there. You are a very sensitive person. Keep it up girl.

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WS - <P>Just jumping in because I've been thinking of you too!! <P>Hope you're OK!!!<P>Hugs and maybe I'll talk with ya later if you're around.<P>Sheba

#5136 08/26/99 05:03 PM
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WS -<P>You posted as I did!!!<P>I would like to talk with you if you want to email @ Sheba101@webtv.net.<P>Hang In There and I'm here for you, too!<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba

#5137 08/26/99 05:13 PM
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Wassi, don't leave. We care. What is going on? Did I miss a post? Let us know when you are ready......

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Hi WS,<BR>I just wanted to drop in & see what's up. I haven't been around as much, but I have seen a difference in your posts too. Do you need the fryin' pan??? I'd be glad to send it to you.<BR>We are all here for you... let us know what's on your mind.... we will always try to help. My e-mail is labutterfly68@hotmail.com.... if you want to talk.<P>God Bless,<BR>Butterfly<P><BR>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Butterfly (edited August 26, 1999).]

#5139 08/27/99 08:15 AM
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Sheba, fighter, Butterfly<BR>Thanks for caring. I really can't get into it now but wanted to let you know I appreciate it.<BR>The battle is just tiring me out. It is bringing out things in me that I'm not fond of. <BR>Satan is ceratainly kicking up his heels at what is going on here and I am sorry I took part in it.<BR>At home - To much happening and too little.<BR>I have just gotten to the "What is the point"<BR>stage. Angry at the world. Best for me not to be here. I came here in the first place to try to help others. I don't think there is any of that left in me. <BR>Take care. I will be checking in on you. Call if you need me. I'm just going to try and find me again. And maybe some of the other things I lost like my self respect.<p>[This message has been edited by wasstubborn (edited August 27, 1999).]

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WS...wow you really sound down. So you want to take a break with our forgiveness workbook? Remember we are to bounderies and I need help with those. Maybe you do, too.<P>I'm working today, so I won't be back until later. Tell me what you want to do.<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

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FHL<BR>I think I need to do some remedial. I don't know how long that will take - if I even get through it. I think there are others here that could help you much more than I could. <BR>

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So, WS...what exactly are you saying my friend, you want to pause or you want to go ahead. You have helped me so many times and have inspired me so many times. So don't tell others can help more. But I understand if you are distracted or tired. Of course maybe that's when we need this kind of stuff the most.<P>I'll be here another five minutes, then off to work. I'll try to get back later.<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

#5143 08/27/99 09:10 AM
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I will miss you, but trust in yourself as far as what you need to do! I will keep you in my thoughts.<P>Sometimes there is just way too much hurt here I think. It is so easy for someone to go off and make comments because of lack of understanding and miscommunication. A break is a good idea if being here is causing more termoil in your life. You sure don't need any more, do you?<P>Take care,<BR>{{{Hugs}}}<BR>Shoni

#5144 08/27/99 09:14 AM
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Wassi, when it got like that for me, I would go and do something else for a while to get my mind off of it. I'm woried about what seems to be a sudden change of events that has sent you into this incredible funk. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] <P>

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Thanks again Shoni<P>fighter<BR>You make sure you stop in here with updates. I'll be watching for them. You hit the nail on the head in your thread. I have lost a lot of things in the last few months and my faith in humanity is one of them.<BR>don't worry about me. I really am just going to try to find those things. I am sad, tired defeated. This is not the place right now to fight those things. I certainly won't find what I've lost here right now either.

#5146 08/28/99 12:39 AM
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Wassi, you seemed to be in full swing a few days ago. What got you? We're concerned about you and want to help. If you want to step back from us, we'll understand. Otherwise, we'll be here, waiting.........

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WS,<P>Dear friend, I know you are probably sick to death of book recomendations..... but, I'm going to give you one anyway. It is a wonderful book about self.<P>"One Day My Soul Just Opened Up" by Illiana VanZant (sp??) I know most book stores carry it.... she has been on Oprah ALOT. It has a BRIGHT yellow cover....<P>My best friend recommended it too me 6 months ago.... I didn't listen. I finally bought the book 4 weeks ago....... It is doing wonders!!<P>I'm here if you need to talk....... we all are.<P>Thoughts & Prayers,<BR>Butterfly<P>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR>

#5148 08/27/99 02:41 PM
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fighter<BR>I'm practising to enter that convent where they aren't allowed to speak. You guys are baiting me with your kindness!<P>Butterfly<BR>Thank you. I NEVER get tired of book suggestions. I usually have two or three going at the same time. But today it's my Bible only.

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WS,<P>I think you would get alot out of this book... She shows us how to get in touch with "The Devine" (God), and how to improve ourselves mentally and spititually, and how to be happy with our "self". <P>{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{WS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<BR>Butterfly<P>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR>

#5150 08/27/99 04:21 PM
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Hey WS -<P>What order of nuns are we joining????<P>Hugs to ya!!<P>Sheba<P>PS Hi Shoni!!!!!

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Wassi, You don't join them, God calls you. Hear anything? I can't imagine you as a nun unless its' the Nuns Templar.. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] <P>When you reach Sainthood, you could be the patron saint of the two fisted wives.<P>Before you do, You and Sheba should spend a week in the Bahamas. I hear that calling. B') <P>I better go, I think I've said way too much.

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Thank you Butterfly - I'll see if I can find it.<P>Sheba and fighter<BR>Shame on you both for teasing me so. Just how am I supposed to reach the ranks of sainthood like those shining examples I see so much of, if you two are tempting me out of my vow of silence? I'm trying to keep a civil tongue in my head and you are not helping.<BR>You know I was named after a saint and my middle name comes from my aunt the MOTHER SUPERIOR.<BR>Thanks for making me smile!

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