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hotel stationary, OW's phone numbers, hotel phone numbers, receipts and lies.....<BR>why won't he just tell me the truth if he knows i know it? i can't have a marriage with someone with so little integrity, guys, and i'm not going to mother him till he gets around to it.<BR>sorry, it's just that kind of day...<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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Hang in there. It sounds like you are having an awful time. Take a deep breath and if you cannot continue to do Plan A and build up your lovebank, you need to think about going to Plan B. I know, what are these men thinking! ((((((((((hugs))))))))))
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thanks, derby. i have glued myself to the couch in front of the puter, and am not answering the phone, in case he calls, because i would jump down his throat if i talk to him. im sure this nightmare will pass soon, and the next one will come up any minute, since he is down by OW's house, and not answering his cell phone....<BR>ugh.<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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I don't understand these people who act crazy when they are involved in their affairs. A couple of months ago, my H e-mailed OW. I monitored his e-mail and pulled up the e-mail note. When he got home, I showed it to him. He tried to deny that he sent it. After I went off on him that nobody else could have sent it, other than me (which I sure wouldn't do), he finally admitted it.<P>Anyway, it just seems like they think we are stupid or something. I know this is awful for you. Whenever I would find things, I would have anxiety attacks over it. It felt good to vent here or call someone to talk.<P>I'm sorry you are going through this. Hang in there and stay strong.
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"oh, I didn't send that email..."<BR>just like my husband, "oh, I wasn't in that town..." but his credit cards and cell phone went without him?<BR>H even denied being married to someone after i found the JOINT tax returns!!!!!<BR>"crazymaking", my therapist calls it....
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Wish I had something better to say....<P>but I'm sending over the 2X4, okay? <P><BR>{{{{{{{{{{{{lwb}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>Lori
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lWb,<P>Don't the lies hurt worse than anything??? I wonder how much of it is really lying to themselves, so they begin to believe their own lies.<P>One positive: My H has stopped lying to me. Still cheating, but ain't lying!<P>I understand your frustrations....SORRY!!!!<P>Roll Me Away<BR><P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>
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hey lostva, send that 2X4 via overnight delivery, kay?<BR>thanks, rma. yeah, ANY kind of integrity would be appreciated at this point, and i have told him that and begged for the truth...it would just hurt far less than the positively insulting lies.<BR>yeah, he has lost contact with reality, i think. he really belives all this garbage, as ridiculous as it is...<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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LWB,<P>If it is of any worth, Robin wouldn't know the truth if she tripped over it...<P><BR>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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LWB,<P>All I can think of to say is I'm sorry. Oh yeah I'll remember you in my bedtime prayer too. {{{{{{{{{{{love WAS blind}}}}}}}}}}}}}<P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<P>
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