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i need to find out where i can find a copy of some "no contact" letters. i've written my own, but i was thinking there must be something a bit more formal. i am the betrayed. my H had an EMA a year ago, continuing up until about 4 months ago, and all along.. even though he swears he has avoided her, and not contacted her, she continues to harass myself and H. obviously, my H never ended things properly and accordingly to harley. any links or pastes of any of these types of letters would be helpful. thank you all.
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If you are talking about a Plan B letter you may want to look at a rough draft made by NSR. I believe the post was called Plan B 101. You can look this up by doing a search by username. I believe it was posted in late December. I know things are getting hard, but remember, a Plan B "no contact" plan is the last resort. Plan A usually comes first.<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P><p>[This message has been edited by jamie-lee (edited January 14, 2000).]
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Actually the topic is called "NSR"S draft Plan B letter". He posted it on Dec 22. Just click on search and I believe it's on his 3rd page of topics.<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."
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The <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan B</A> letter is <B>not</B> the same thing as the "No Contact" letter <B>tracing</B> is asking for.<P>The type of letter <B>tracing</B> is asking for is for the betrayer to tell the OP that the affair is over! It follows the <B>How to tell a lover that the relationship is over letter</B> (on page 58-59 of <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>"Surviving An Affair"</A>)<P>If anyone has a copy of their's please reply!<P>If not... <B>tracing</B>... e-mail to me ( imherczeg@yahoo.com ) your e-mail address... OK. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim<p>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited January 14, 2000).]
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thank you NSR, you are right. the letter i was referring to is one for my H to send to OW stating that the affair is over and to leave us alone and stop harassing. i will e you with my e-dress to send me a copy. thank you again.
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