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Since my post from last weekend about me overhearing my H and OW after his cell phone had been left on, my H has been home every night this week. I recorded the two of them talking on my answering machine and purposely left it on the anwering machine for a reminder to my H. Well he erased it but not before he had to play through the whole thing. Do you think that after hearing everything that was said he is actually guilty or sorry for what he did and by staying home this week is trying to make up for it or is he up to something. I know I am not very trusting but I don't have reason to trust him either. I know I can't confront him that would be a major LBter. I am trying very hard to be careful about what I say and have not mentioned the OW since the incident over the weekend. Help what next???
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bc,<BR>Well, it could be a good sign; then again it could mean nothing. It is so hard to figure out what is going on inside their heads. I would say keep Plan Aing it, be patient and continue to leave the OW out of any discussions. Take care!<P>Darlene
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Thanks for the reply. I know how hard it is to know what they are thinking and when I think I do my H seems to have done the opposite or has lied again. I want to take this as a sign of progress but if I get my hopes up I don't want them to be shattered again. They are only suppose to be friends but after what I overheard on H's cellphone I really wonder.
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