Hello everyone,<BR>I haven't been posting or replying a lot lately because I have been busy at work (which is a good thing!), and there haven't been many new developments lately...until last night!<P>Just to give you some background, my H and I have been separated since 8/5. He, for the most part, lives with the OW. I know that he has filled out divorce papers and I had anticipated him filing for divorce after the holidays were over. He was very affectionate and loving during the holiday season, but for the past couple weeks he has been very distant.<P>So, it came as a total surprise to me when last night he invited me to come over (to his parent's house) and watch movies! He had left a message saying that he and my D were lonely and wanted to know if I would like to come over. We had a very nice evening, and as I left he gave me three very passionate kisses.<P>I've try not to get too excited about these things because it could mean nothing, but that was the first time he has ever invited me over. Usually on the weekends that he has our D he sleeps at his parent's house, but spends every moment possible with the OW. So, it makes me wonder what's up with their relationship. <P>Anyway, I just wanted to share the news with everybody. I plan to continue Plan Aing it, being patient, improving me and praying. Who knows, maybe it is starting to pay off!!!<BR>

That does sound good! Keep Plan-Aing! Good luck.

Hi Sleepless,<P> Sounds really encouraging, just remember don't get too excited, take it slow, he's testing the waters and don't pursue...what great news! LU

Sleepless in STL,<P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A> all the way!<P>Jim

Great baby steps!!!! Plan A all the way. Prayers and {{{HUGS}}}<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

I'm sure you looked stunning. Keep on doing what your doing. Plan A all the way. You're doing great...<P>------------------<BR>"If you can learn from the mistakes of others, you won't have to make them youself."<P>lady_divine77@yahoo.com

Thanks for the support and words of encouragment...finding MBs has been such a blessing! I really don't know what I would do without this website and the MB community! It has been your support and advice that has gotten me this far! Without MBs, I think I would have given up a long time ago.<P>Thanks again!<P>Darlene<P>