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When I've posted lately I sent such good news that the H had quit seeing the OW. Boy was I wrong again. It seems that he hasn't. I'm feeling more depressed now than ever. A mutual friend told me that my H saw her on New Years Eve. And that they have never stopped seeing each other, although he broke it off with her that night (New Year's). You'd think that I'd be happy about that right. I dont know why but I feel terrible. He has been extra sneaky to have continued to fool me again. I am glad that he dumped her, but the way I feel right now is that it will probably only last a couple of weeks. I just don't know if I can carry on. I feel like a nervous breakdown is coming. I have lost 50# in the last 6 months....What to Do?
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Stella<BR>Do you know for sure what yor friend said was true? I mean are you sure that your friend knows that the two are continuing to see each other? I know that sometimes friends think they are helping but what I would do is confront your H and ask him. Tell him someone told you he's still seeing her and have it out in the open. This isn't lovebusting, it's asking a simple question. Tell him you don't necessarily believe your friend but would like to have his assurances that your feeling good things in your relationship with him. I always found that when I came to my H with an honest emotion and explained that I wasn't attacking him, just reassuring myself that he understood. God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!
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Dear Stella,<BR>I am VERY concerned that you have lost so much weight! Please seek help asap, your health will suffer tremendously if you don't. I will definitely pray for you dear...Hold on.<BR>Sincerely,<BR>Danielle1313
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