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Well, here it is another work week starting. I could really use some encouraging. The weekends are pretty good, and getting better I think. But then the begining of the week starts and I have to face the OW calls, and the fact that H will see her all week again. The interviews for the tranfer job she was supposedly trying to get start tommorrow. I really don't know what I am going to do, if she doesn't get this job. Well, you all have a great week, thanks again for all the support I have found here. It has helped me so much.<BR>Love, V
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cryinginside&out,<P>I hope you week goes better...<P>I still think small handheld tape recorder(mini-cassette) for $40 and a "mic" adapter for the recorder $10 (all from Radio Shack) is good investment. If you can just record what she tells you...<P>You can prove it to your H... (if he needs it)<BR>And if you must... take it to court for stalking charges...<P>Just an idea...<P>I don't want to make you paranoid...<BR>I just know that protection (of your family) includes <B>self-protection</B>.<P>Prayers for a continued... <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A>!<P>Jim
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crying inside&out,<BR>i know how you must be feeling, considering that after a year since i've found out about my H affair, his ow still harasses me. from calls, to messages at work, to letters, to following me on the roads, she won't leave me alone. even though my h has told her it was over and he was working on our marriage, she won't take no for an answer. i agree with NSR, that you must go to lengths to stop this yourself. if your husband isn't going to protect you from her harassment, who will? go to radio shack, pick up the aforementioned items, and start recording. gather all the proof you can. you may or may not need to use it, my prayers for you that you won't.
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cryinginside&out,<P>You are not alone... see <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/012056.html" TARGET=_blank>OW called me!!!</A> by Mitzi.<P>Jim
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