In the past 6 months I have come to know more than I would like to about the sickness that abounds in this arena. Has anyone else had their hearts torn out due to this "virtual world"? I did locate a paper on the net written after studying it. They are changing partners at the drop of a hat. Come to find out my husband has "been with" (no in "Real" life as they call it) at least 4 or 5 in the last year. They all "fall in love" and I just want to know...can you really address the "real Marriage" with people who are very into theis "sickness" as a result of what I believe is lack of true intimacy or really being able to trust someone else. He lost his mom to suicide at 12 and then found out at about 30 tht his dad was not his dad. Seems like some pretty deep stuff to me. He has been in counceling. The councelor tells him he needs to find God to "fill the hole in his soul" I have no doublt ot that, but how does he so that when he can't really trust? Any body dealing with this "fantasy world". You should hear some of the stories!