<BR>The OW called me!! The nerve!! She basically threatened me and my children.She said that H's life would be a lot better if we weren't in the picture. Also that if she could get someone to take care of me she would. I had heard that she was saying stuff like this to other people but thought it was just her being an a**. It's a good thing H is at work cause I would LB big time. H gets off in a couple of hours. Should I call him to let him know this? Should he be aware of this? She did say that if he asked her anything about it, she would deny it. <BR>I may end up with a restraining order against her. <BR>Tell me what to do!!!!

Oh my mitzi, you didn’t happen to let your answering machine record the conversation did you? I would screen all my calls from now on that way when you do present this info to your H or the courts you will have the proof in her very own words.<BR>Lesa<BR><P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> LMS20ish@cs.com

mitzi,<P>Be careful! I went through this and it was very scary. I did get the police involved right away. It doesn't matter if she denies it or not, she is threatening you and you deserve to protect yourself. I would calmly tell your H what happened and hope he agrees that she cannot continue her harrassment. If you feel threatened you need to protect yourself!<P>That is the epitome of all things unnatural for her to feel she can threaten you. It makes me sick to my stomach!<P>I'll be praying for you.<BR>Blessings, Taj<P>------------------<BR>"Perfect love casts out fear" I John 4:18

No answering machine here. I have caller I.D. but it was from a pay phone. She wasn't shy about telling me who she was. I guess she was smart enough to figure out that I could keep the # on the caller I.D.And the bad part is she knows where I live and what my car looks like. I know her and I don't trust her one bit!

Der Mitzi,<P>I'm sorry this happened to you! I'm going to say a few things here that may be controversial, but at least you'll hopefully get a chuckle. At most, you'll get a better perspective.<P>First of all, if this silly little wench actually HAD the means to do you in or get rid of you somehow, do you really think she'd be fool enough to open her mouth about it? No hit man I ever knew (and I have known a few) would ever do such a favor for someone with lips a lose as hers! <P>Second, I do agree with the former posts mentioning getting the police involved. If you don't have a mchine, now's the time to get yourself one, and USE it. She sounds like the type who, given enough rope will hang herself! She's clearly not at all sophisticated, just has a big mouth and a shrivled heart.<P>If she does call again, don't stand there and get all red in the face - be ready - coach yourself to laugh at her! People get sooo mad when you laugh at them when they're trying to be serious and intimidating - it really takes the wind out of their sails! Make a joke out of what she says - example:<P>wench: "Your husband is better off with me, you know!"<P>Mitzi the Great: "Oh, yes, you're so right - because I've seen you too - you have SO MUCH more to offer - especially in the weight department! Tell me, when you wear corduroy, do your thighs create a forest fire?"<P>Then hang up! HEHEHEHEHE <P>Ok, that was mean, but, you deserve to laugh at this. <P>Now for a few suggestions you DIDN'T hear from me:<P>1) Wouldn't it be such a nice suprise for Ms. Wench to receive a package delivered VIA UPS full of delectable brownies? Too bad she won't know that you dumped a few powerful laxatives and a bottle of Ipecac syrup in them, and a little dog poop, and ...<P>Ohh I have a few more Ideas, but the Karma Police will come get me, so I'd better stop here! Plus, I really don't want to offend anyone, it's just for giggles.<P>Khyra<P>PS You can buy Ipecac Syrup at any drug store - it's usually in the same size bottle as vanilla flavoring ...

Oh, believe me. She doesn't scare me when it is about me. I worry about my kids, maybe not physically but emotionally. Can you imagine if she confronted me somewhere and my kids were there? (It's a small town and I have my kids with me 99% of the time) Not that I think she would actually kill me but I know she would try to bait me into a physical fight. (No I'm not the fighter). She didn't get to me when I was on the phone. It was after I hung up that I got pi**ed off. How dare she invade my home and privacy!!! She is a psychotic thing!! One man was already shot because of a thing she had with 2 men at the same time. I told her that I haven't bothered her and I expect the same from her. This mess is between me and my H. She tried calling back 2 times but I didn't answer. Why should I bother? She is definately not worth it. The only time I call her house is when I call to speak to my H. (not anymore though).

Khyra, I like the way you think!!! LOL

Khyra,<BR>I wanted to tell you, if I thought it would work, I would definately do it!!! You don't know how much time I spend thinking of ways to get to her! Fantasy land!!!

If I were you, I would call the police and file a report. That way, there is a record of the harrassment. Trust me, she can get in trouble for this.

Do you have an answering machine? If you do, check it out. Most have a feature that will allow you to record underway telephone calls. If she does that again make a tape. It will be very useful both with the police and your husband.

Most telephone company's will attempt to change your number if you feel threatened and do have the means to press charges if you have her address and are willing to swear to what she said. I would tell your H that weather he believes you or not your going to change your number and ask him not to give it out. When he dials you from her phone to add an extra number on so it won't dial right and then get it changed to an unknown number. THat takes care of her calling you. As far as the kids, tell them you have some fears because of some stuff that's been going on so you want to know their exact whereabouts from now on..... I would tell him in a non=lovebusting way though that she threatened you and that you don't take it lightly and my be seeking legal help in regards to those threats. God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!

I tried to get ahold of H tonight at the motel where he stays during the week. He was already asleep by then. I'll get ahold of him tomorrow. <BR>I talked to my MIL about it. She advised me to try to get a restraining order to keep OW away from me and the kids. (She's never been around them and never will be). I'm going to go talk to the police tomorrow about it. I feel like telling him he has a choice to make, her or the kids. (Neither one of us has filed for custody or visitation). I don't want them to be put in the situation. <BR>I don't have to worry about the kids not being around me. They're too young. (10, 7, and 2). If they aren't with me, they are with a responsible adult, usually another family member. <BR>I just can't believe she has big enough ba**s to call me!!! What a skank!! <BR>She also said that she's been trying to get him for 2 years. I wish I had known that before.<BR>I think it's also time to invest in a answering machine.

Mitzi,<BR> Have you thought about buying one of those lifeguard whistles to keep by the phone? <BR> --Murph

Never though aout the whistle, Murph. That's a good idea. Maybe it would make her think twice about calling my house.

Khyra,<BR>She is the dumb kind. She is the type to try to do something like this. And the people she knows are dumb enough to do something even this stupid. But Im not too worried. She's obviously not too smart if she called to tell me what she was going to do.

Mitzi...<P>I'm glad that you will file a report with the police. At least, there will be some kind of record. After filing that report, and if she tries calling again, she will get in trouble. That'll teach her!

give a police report--please! That way, if anything happens or she tries it again, you'll have a record about it. This will only work to your favor!!!!!!! Protect yourself!!!!!

mitzi,<BR>i don't post much, considering i am new and not really sure of what to say. but i have been for the last year continually harassed by my H's XOW. i'm telling you this NOW.. protect yourself. talk to the police, talk to a lawyer.. find out how you can keep her from doing this again. and she WILL do it again. experience has told me so. get a recorder, a restraining order, and use it. pick up the phone, let her run her mouth. <BR>and Kyhra...way to go. i couldn't have said it better myself.

Mitzi, the others are right, PLEASE file a police report. And, call your phone company and report her. They will follow up on this. Also, you can get a voice activated recorder from Radio Shack that will start recording phone calls when a voice is detected on the line. Well worth the cost.

Dear Mitzi, If 1 man has been shot at because of this "Bimbo"bit-- from hell , then there might be a police report with her involved ??? I'd most definatly get the law involved with or without H's consent for your safty and your childrens. Who knows what the Bimbo is involed with , drug people, etc .... And be a real CLASS act, .Ladies don't fight with their hands (even though we'd all like to see OP with missing teeth), use your mind ! Maybe telling H how scared you are of her , alot of honey catches more flies Good Luck , Katana