I wanted to take the time to thank everyone who responded to my post. I don't often have enough time during the day to write and I also don't want to get sucked into the internet again. My husband and I are doing well. I think I have more fears about backsliding into past behaviors (depression, not cheating!) but we're aware of this and we just keeping talking, talking, talking. We know it will take time for everything to heal. In my heart, I know we will and are succeeding. <P>You'll probably hear more from my husband but I plan on lurking. I know I can learn from everyone here and it's nice to know we're not alone. If I don't post again, it's probably because I'm afraid of getting addicted again<BR>and trying to find something else to do with my time. Thank you again to everyone who wrote me and my husband, particularly when he needed it most. It probably helped save our marriage.

You are very welcome, my dear. This is a safe place to come and air your troubles. I'm so happy to see that things are working out! Congratulations, and here's to a new stronger future for you and SadMan!<P>Khyra<P>PS you can e-mail me anytime with anything (except a virus!) you want - I've heard it all!

Good luck to you... I understand your need to stay away from the computer. Let us know now and then how things are going and know that we want the best for you..... Remember we are always here to listen if you feel the need. Take care....