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What is the deal? This is week 3 of the withdrawal. I thought I was over the OM. I seen him last week going down the road. He kept looking at me out of the corner of his eye and I just laughed and kept driving. <BR>Now, I feel like H and I are growing apart again. I CAN NOT let this destroy my marriage. Is this normal? I am now wondering about the OM. I still talk to his friend. The om friend that is. Should I not do that? We dont even discuss the OM. HELP!!!!!!! I feel so distant from H right now. I NEED YOUR PRAYERS!!!!!!!!!!<P>How long will it take to get over OM??
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Joined: Mar 1999
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Hang in there. Those feelings for the om will come and go for quite a while. I still have feeling for the om on occasion and that has been over a year ago. Stick to your guns. It would probably be good to not talk to his friend either.<BR>londonite
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inamess, sorry to say -- withdrawal can take a helluva long time to get completely cleared from your head! It takes plenty of time and patience. Think of yourself as a recovering alcholic and do things "one day at a time".<P>Every day you don't talk to/miss/think about the OM, is a victory. Every time you fall, it is not a failure, but rather a slip. You simply pick up and start again...<P>--andy
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