Hi everyone I have made a very bad decision and I don't know what to do. My hope is there is someone out here that may be able to help me out..
<br>I am a 35 year old male, I have been married for 15 years and I love my wife very,very,very, much . About two years ago I had a job offer out side my home state, at that time me and my wife discussed it and decided that we would relocate and I would take the job, well we went , it was not even a month and my wife was miserable all she wanted to do is go back, we stayed for a year and then I moved her back home and I ended up traveling back and forth twice a month to see my family.
<br>We decided that I should stay until a job came up for me back home, well it didn't happen, nothing came up ,so I decided to go back anyway. Well I search for a job for about 4 weeks and was having no success when my old boss called and practically begged me to come back, my wife was very,very upset about it and all we did was fight about it. well needless to say I took the job back and went on my way. I have been back at this job for 3 months now, and I am absolutely at my bottom, I have made a serious mistake in my decision, all I want to do is go back and try to put things back together, but my wife dose not want to talk to me, she wants a divorce and that's it, she says she can't trust me any more....... CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP............

Sorry, but it sounds as though your wife has made up her mind. She maybe needs to grow up some. When you married it was for better or worse. Since when is it a bad decision when a better job comes along. Does she have family at home she can't leave, a job? One month is not a very long trial. Her place is with you. I hope it works out.

I feel for you. Home is where the family is. It sounds that it took you a while but you made the right decision. It sounds like your wife is looking for a way out of the relationship. What does she mean she can't trust you ? Because you wanted to find a better job to support your family. She needs to set her priorities straight.
<br> Let her know that you made a mistake and should have never left your family, and that you want her back forever.
<br> Good luck.