After being married for 23 years, my wife was told that because we were once co-dependent drug users we couldn't live together. We had a wonderful marriage and friendship until a year and a half ago when she left me. I have two of our three boys,the two oldest are very angry with her. I have given her time to herself to figure things out, but I am at my wits end as far as what to do. I have asked her to go to a marriage counselor, but she refuses, stating we can afford it or? Originally she said she fell out of love with me, but daily she comes to me for comfort. We have had no sexual relations for almost two years. I have aasked her if she is having an affair and she says no. and her morals have always been high. I love this woman with all my heart.