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Has anyone out there actually filed for Divorce, regretted it and succeeded in getting their spouse back? Does anyone know someone who did?<p>If so, please let me know how you/your friend did it so I can try to learn from your/their experience.<p>I'm working on it but feel desperate that I won't succeed and I fear time may be running out!<p><br>Fionn
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seek counseling.........tell your husband how you feel...and Look to your Heavenly Father for your best results.<p>[This message has been edited by freesun (edited 11-19-98).]
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Thanks, I have attempted counselling but my husband thinks that 'head doctors' only make people worse and I have been looking to God and find that is certainly helping me to cope and am inching along with my husband.<p>Many thanks, still in limbo though and will be until next week when my husband returns from an out of town visit!<p>Fionn
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<br>I also filed for a divorce. What a big mistake. Now 2 months later we are begining to talk again I truly Belive That with time and lots of understanding we will back together.<br> I hope this gives you hope <p>Jim
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Thanks for those words of encouragement. I'm chipping away and hoping and praying as I feel it was the biggest mistake of my life. I hope I will be given the chance to make ammends.<p><br>The best of luck to you with your marriage too.<p>Fionn<p>[This message has been edited by Fionn (edited 11-20-98).]
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It's been 8 days since I spoke with my husband and he should be back from his trip. In my weakened state last night I left a message on his phone in a cheery as opposed to a depressed tone to see what he was doing for Thanksgiving and offering a walk on the beach or a coffee. He hasn't called back which may be me being impatient. That has always been a problem for me and I feel now a sense of fear that I will deteriorate again into a blubbering mess. This won't help me or him when I speak with him again.<p>Can anyone give me some pointers or Jim, how did you get your wife to believe and Trust that you made a mistake and to give you the opportunity to prove that to her?<p>Thanks,<p>Fionn
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