My husband and I are in our early forties and were married a little over a year ago. He has waivered back and forth on the issue of having children and recently informed me that he does not want a child because of the lifestyle change. We did have a miscarriage last year and he knows how important this is to me. He has always been so wonderful with children and we did discuss this before marriage. He did agree to have a family and even a couple of weeks ago he discussed trying again. I do love my husband very much I do take my vows seriously, but I don't want to turn into a bitter, resentful person over this. Also, at my age I'm not sure if I can conceive, even though my doctor doesn't see a problem, and I was hoping that we could put in a real effort. I don't want to hate my husband over this and it seems that on a daily basis I'm being questioned by friends, relatives and even acquaintances on whether or not I'm pregnant. Maybe because this is so new and "final" I'm especially sensative. I have no intentions of leaving my husband, but I need assistance in dealing with my resentment and anger. Thanks!<p>[This message has been edited by Betsy (edited 12-17-98).]<p>[This message has been edited by Betsy (edited 12-17-98).]