it's all green!<p>[This message has been edited by melonman (edited 01-28-99).]

To Christopher Fink..<p>If you truly love your wife and child STAY AWAY from them. You need serious mental therapy. You almost starved your son to DEATH... 16 lbs at two years of age. When help finally came for him you kidnapped from the hospital and put his life at risk again! To top it off you allowed your wife to give birth to a 2nd child while hiding out in the cold wilderness without the benefit of medical help. When I saw baby David on the Leeza show for the first time I cried and cried to see his frail boney body... crying of hunger and neglect. LET THEM BE IF YOU LOVE THEM!! ...A friend of baby David Fink.<p><br><a href="http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Nebula/4157/DAVID.html">Baby David's story can be read about here.</a>

it's all green!<p>[This message has been edited by melonman (edited 01-28-99).]

Chris, your posting above is pretty transparent. I hope you are getting the help you need.<p>[This message has been edited by Doug (edited 01-14-99).]

Melonman,<p>I am not familiar with the case, so I'll give you my $.02.<p>You said<br>--------------------------------------------<br>Love your spouse enough to meet their needs even if they don't meet yours. That's how you bring them around to your view.<br>--------------------------------------------<p>That's part of it. The first part for recovery should be the elimination of 'harmful' behaviors to the loving environment. So get rid of the lovebusters. Angry outbursts, disrespectful judgements, selfish demands, dishonesty.<p>I see plenty of those lovebusters incorporated into your post. You've got some serious work to do to get rid of them. And you have to strive for CONSISTANCY: it's important to demonstrate to your wife that you are changing for real. Forever. Plan on at least 3-6 months for those changes to take place. Plan on some more time for your wife to recognize them.<p>You've figured out the 'meeting the needs' part. The other focal points are spending time with your wife, and being completely honest with her.<p>How you're going to accomplish any of this given your apparent legal situation is beyond me. But even so, it's no excuse for you NOT to attempt to do this. You'll turn out better for it no matter what the outcome of your marriage. And based on your strong beliefs in marriage, you realize that this is the "right thing to do."<p>

Chris! I did contact <br>Detective Michael McPharlin<br>who is aware of who you are and your case.<br>he did tell me he thinks the only person in danger of you is yourself.<br>that you need help.<br>I am not judging you. I saw pictures of David and pictures of you and Kendra I do not know any of you!<br>I only helped to get the word out about all of you so they would be found before they starved to death ...all of america and other countries know BECAUSE you were wanted and being looked for. It is a shame you can't be together with Kendra but from what I have heard she is doing well.<br>People can go look for themself. but you do need help. I don't doubt that she probably feels something for you. only she can answer that. <br>I know people can change. I pray you will get help change and then perhaps you can be together again..that will be her choice yours and the judge I guess.<br>too bad you kept running what do you want us to think. I think you need help God bless you with His peace and He knows your heart and intentions.I don't.<br>all I know is I am thankful they found you all before it was too late.<br>wasn't just <br>Leezas show you were on ALOT of shows.<br>missing children plus others, alot and had alot of people praying for you to be found.<br>THANK GOD! you were found when you were because the kids never would have survived another nite in the cold without food dehydrated.<br> Take care..read your bible and pray..it is what most of us are doing..TRUSTING GOD TO WORK IT ALL OUT..

Chris...<br>Sorry, but I believe what i saw reported on the news everynight for 2 weeks straight, America's Most wanted twice, Leeza, and others more than I believe YOU! <p>I DO HOPE YOU GET HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey, just thought I should let everyone know that I got out of jail quite a long time ago. I divorced Kyndra, made sure she lost custody of our children so she would have to get help and therapy, and then I relinquished my own parental rights under the threat that I would be assassinated if I did not do so. Can't do your children or anyone much good if you are dead.

I'll bet none of you knew that the judge presiding over the criminal case against me was a long-time friend to my co-defendant's father. They have been church buddies for years. Hmmm...

For those who believed the old posts from those calling me an insane criminal, here is the truth: It was Kyndra's sister, Michelle Bennett, who believed that David Moshe Fink was the "Christ Child." Of course, other people in Michelle's family felt the same way. I don't know what Kyndra thought, hell, I had a hard enough time getting her to call me and let me know what part of the country she was living in while I drove truck OTR. There was never a single witness anywhere that ever heard me state such a thing (THE CHRIST CHILD RUMOR), simply because I never did say any such thing. Still believe Leeza, Montel, Springer, and other firebrand media morons? Then find Kyndra, wherever she is, and ask her. She will verify that I did not even have control of my son. I did not even know what part of the country my family was living in, due to a lack of communication from my ex-wife.

I never claimed to be a prophet, and I never even claimed to believe in the most cultish, retarded, and illogical Mormon religion. It was Michelle Bennett who told me that she and her family were all prophets and that I needed to obey their religion or else God would curse me and my children. Well, how interesting that she kidnapped my son and almost killed him in the name of her religion! Being that I was poor white trash, she had no problem helping me to take the blame.

But hey, we all trust Leeza. Her show definitely panders to the sensitivities of the educated and refined members of society!

I learned that the way to end all marital suffering is to end the marriage. Marriage is a means for two people to consider each other like property. Most people in our society are not educated enough to have a healthy marriage. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high? Solution: don't get married. Be friends. Be individuals. Don't try to own someone as your very own. People's gushing about marriage being great is just that-gushing bull. Just ask Michelle Bennett. Her psychiatrist leaked that she is a danger to herself and her children. Did any of you know that she was on a soup of psychotropic medication to lessen her urges to be violent with her little children? But she is 'concerned' along with her friend.

Now I am single, rich, and loving every minute of it. What a punishment for my imaginary crimes! Funny thing that everyone who gets to know me will say nothing but good. People like Michelle Bennett claimed to know me, but it was a pack of lies. I once spoke to Michelle for about 20 minutes while she tried to convert me to her whacko religion and then cursed me when I told her I did not want to hear her nonsense. She is a good one for making up tales about a man with whom she has had no real interaction.

For those who wished me bad fortune, what can you say of your happiness?

Oh, and I care for other children the government does not know about. The kids absolutely love me and you can smoke that in your pipes. They are healthy and happy as can be.

Christopher Fink is innocent. Michelle Bennett is a drug-crazed religious fanatic and cultist. If I believed in the devil, I would call her a child of the devil, but I don't believe in fairy tales like heaven and hell. Oh, what the heck, Michelle Bennett is a child of whatever devil she worships in the name of whatever god she fears.

Have a nice life. Thanks so much for slandering my name and helping put an innocent man behind bars. No, really, thanks, I had to learn somehow that the world actually is a bad place full of liars and uneducated barbarians.

If you want the truth about the criminal charges, go to http://brainwashington.com and scroll down the current headlines to find a few articles and a really insane interview.

<small>[ October 17, 2002, 11:31 PM: Message edited by: melonman ]</small>