it's all green!<p>[This message has been edited by melonman (edited 01-28-99).]

Christopher:<p>I can't really tell you what to do to restore your marriage in the face of a court order limiting your communication with your wife--you have a kind of unique situation. I'm guessing you could benefit from a marriage counselor, even if it was just you going alone.<p>I think, however, you need LEGAL counsel even more. There's an old saying that goes: "When a man is his own attorney, he has a fool for a client." Like it or not, for the time being, you ARE in an adversarial situation, and you could easily get legally 'raped'. You need to cover your own butt, even as you try to work things out.<p>Good luck! I'll say a prayer for you.

If you are who I think you are. I don't blame her for not wanting to be with you.<br>your kids almost died, she could have died too. I think you more then controlled her.<br>are you the one who only let your lil boy eat watermellon? and she was pregnant and you kept on the run? I had a website up about you and your family trying to help get them home before anyone died.<br>I am so thankful to God HE BROUGHT light to where you were all at.<br> I am sorry you do NOT deserve a wife and children. you are in need of some serious help. MORE children? I think she told you what you wanted to hear.<br>I will pray for you. I am sure I KNOW who you are and I am so thankful that Kendra and the children are safe and away from you and your control.<br>GOD KEEP THEM SAFE..Chris please why not just accept what you did was wrong..more then abuse..you almost cost them their lives.<br>just leave them alone now. I doubt you could ever be together, maybe without your kids but I don't think you would be allowed to have yours back, I doubt she will give them up to be with you she is out from under your influence..I AM sorry but it is so sad what happened..you hurt alot of people..most of america knows who you are..I still see haunting pictures of your son..as thin as he was..I hope Kendra and the boys are well..<br>I hope you can learn to live without them.

Christopher:<p>Well, I guess ol' Doug's been living in a hole somewhere, 'cause I had no knowledge of the background on your "high-profile criminal case" when I answered your original post. Is 'SadEyes' correct, and you are the Christopher Fink of the news stories and the website?<p>I'm assuming that SadEyes, and the respondants to your other thread, are correct. And I fully agree with what they have told you. If you love your family, STAY AWAY FROM THEM! They are trying to recover from the hurt YOU imposed.<p>I still think you need legal counsel, but I don't think you need marriage counseling as much as you desparately need psychiatric counseling. And, IMHO, spiritual counseling.<p>As a Christian, I believe there is no sin too great for Jesus to forgive, if we sincerely ask forgiveness and repent. I wish you well in your recovery, and pray that God will open your eyes to things which you may not now see.