My husband left 2 weeks ago. He hasn't been happy for a long time. His problem used to be work now its me. He told me that he needs to be away from me and left alone. I left him some special surprises that I thought he would like and he jumped all over me for it. I was trying to let him know that I loved him. He told me that he loved me but didn't know if he was "in love" with me. He has broke my heart, and I will leave him alone since that is what he wants. I guess what hurt me worse of all was him telling me that he didn't care about anything anymore. He doesn't care that people know we have seperated, or that he has hurt me. Any advice will be appreciated!<br>

Glitter,<p>I too have gone through similar circumstances with my wife, who told me that she doesnt love me anymore. I love her very much and was caught completely by surprise. It has happened to many here at this site. I suggest that you contact Steve Harley by clicking on the Counsel button on this site and get immediate counselling, without your husband. These things all happen for reasons, and if you get help now from someone as good as Steve, you can help identify those and work towards reconciliation with your husband. I struggled and argued with my wife for month before I spoke with Steve, and in just a few weeks, I have a completely different perspective on things. My problems are still far from over, but I feel like I am moving forward in my goal to regain my wife's llove. She does not feel that we can reconcile, but I will continue to work. I believe that things will work out for us in the end. Just get some help, you cant think clearly enough now to make these important ecisions alone.<p>Keep in touch.<p>

Glitter: has he even told you WHY he has walked away? If he could tell you, we might be able to better analyze this situation...<p>A common reason for a man to walk away is that he feels that he has not and never will make his wife happy. Did you make him think you were happy? Or were you constantly telling him you were disappointed?<p>Well, let us know what the problems were that he had.

He said he left because he wasn't happy. I didn't show him love. However, when I tried he pushed me away. He also says his problems started because of stress at work. Now all of the problems are me. I always wanted him to do what he wanted to do such as fishing. If he wanted to go do something, I didn't mind. I never wanted to be the nagging wife. That has backfired on me now he tells me I shouldn't have let him gone. He told me yesterday that he wasn't coming home and that he had made up his mind. I told him I wanted him home and he said it was too late. He also said that he "feels better" since he has left. Now what do I do? He doesn't want to seek help or anything! Help