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How many lies need to be told before you just get angry and say GET OUT! All I hear is how sensitive I am and I expect too much. Sorry, but I don't see it this way. Lies are lies and there is no room for them in any relationship. How many chances does a guy get? Am I being unreasonable.
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You're being far from unreasonable.<p>What are you saying? That your man lies to you compulsively? That would be terrible, and I myself, wouldn't put up with it.<p>Maybe you should re-evaluate why you are with this man. What happiness does he bring you? If it were me, I would leave a man who lied to me.<p>I hope you don't allow him to pollute your belief in people any longer.<p>Good luck. Just remember: no one deserves to be lied to. And you're no exception. You deserve a lot better than that!
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Aubrey:<p>You are correct in saying that there isn't room in a healthy marriage for lies. <p>I suggest that you read the areas on this web site concerning "honesty". "Give and Take" has a section on honesty too, if I remember (all the books probably do).<p>You don't explain your situation at all, but I would suggest that you need to encourage honesty as well. When your husband is honest with you about something that is "unpleasant", you cannot afford to return his honesty with Lovebusters (anger and disrespect are the common two). Honesty is a bit "tricky" in this regard: you need to learn to give and receive it without lovebusters.
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