I have posted before, but thought I would try again. I received a notice in the mail a few days ago that my car insurance had been cancelled the previous month. Normally, I would have lost my temper with my husband and he would have promised to take care of it until next time. This time I took a different approach. I paid the insurance and the fine owed to the state DMV by writing 2 checks on our joint account. I did not tell him and he hasn't asked. We have enough money, but he just "forgets". He "forgets" the mortgage, credit cards, my student loan, insurance and other bills until we receive phone calls, letters or even have accounts cancelled. I have a credit card in my name only, so I do have a little credit that is good. When I have offered to help in the past, he says he has it under contro, but he doesn't. We have a computer, money management software and we can even pay bills <BR>using a bill paying service through the computer!!! However, he doesn't use it until we have our backs against the wall. I hate getting calls at work and the constant messages at home. This is the only major problem we have not been able to deal with.