I am a newlywed...I will be married a year next month...and boy oh boy...did I NOT have any Idea what marriage would be like...I don't know what I thought it was...but my hubby and I love eachother and don't ever want a divorce..been through it as children..so it is something we will not repeat....<BR>It is easy to resolve conflict if people will let go of pride..admit wrong doing..and serve eachother..that has been the hardest thing for me to learn..but the more I let go of what I want and focus on my hubby the happier I have EVER been in my life..and he reciprocates it in a 1000 fold. That is what I am learning..and it makes it a lot easier to get past all the junk that happens...<P>I love this site so very much...I get so much from reading it everyday. I would like those of you who would like to to join my <P>Forever With You <BR>message board...it is for newlyweds and oldlyweds with great advice...stories ect to help eachother make better marriages...we all have the same kinds of struggles...and I strongly believe that failure in the home is the worst kind..because if you can't make it work with the ones who matter the most..then nothing esle really matters...<P>here is the addy<P>www.netbabbler.com/goto?forumid=23842<P>I have had some wonderful posts there already....<P>I also have started an emailing ring on Onelist.com titled<P>0-Forever-With-You<P>all you have to do to subscribe is go to <BR>www.onelist.com and register..then in the search engine type in 0-Forever-With-You and subscribe...I moderate the emails..so you will never get stuff you don't want..and it totally deals with being married..and learning that we all struggle and have joys together. <P>I hope to see some of you in either forums...they are both free...I am not a psychiatrist of any kind...just a newlywed who wants her marriage to work...and I think that we can all help eachother.<P>Have a great day all.<P>E. Stump<P>------------------<BR>In the end I want to be standing at the beginning with you...