I'm in so much pain. We've been married 3 1/2 years and have a beautiful 10 month old baby boy. Our marriage has existed through many many outside conflicts with family, friends & jobs but it's taken it's toll. I realize where I've made mistakes but am afraid it's too late. My husband has packed up and left saying he feels nothing for me anymore. He won't try counseling because he says you must have feelings which he doesn't. He's been gone 4 days now and I'm left with our son. He wants to come and take him for the weekend but will have been gone two weeks by then. I want to turn it around but am losing hope. He seems so cold and withdrawn. I try not to call him but it's hard. I just want another chance but he says no. He does admit to wishing the feelings would come back which has given me the smallest glimmer of hope. Can someone help me?? What do I do? Most of the other questions pertain to wives that have left. Is it too late to reach him?