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wat is love & y is love so hurt n painful!??<BR>i love my hubby dearly but i'm not happy & my emtionally needs are not met! I dun understand y other couples could be so loving & devoted but not ours!i reali envy them but i looked at our marriage!We been married for 5 yrs but unhappiness,conflirts,fights n quarrels are more than happiness.We shared our life mostly in arguements n quarrels but we still manage to hold on to this marriage may it be painful!is this love??but if it is,y are we always quarrelling & criticising each other??<BR>i reali love him but at times when i see him my temper juz start burning hot tat i could explored any mins!tats how we always ended up wif quarrels!nevertheless,after awhile we are back together & this is the marriage we are leading!its not healthy but nothing seems could be done.I always tried to communicating wif him but he always mis-interpret my intention!nothing seems to work btw us but drift us even further apart that i reali feel i'm sleeping wif a stranger next to me & the feelings are reali unbearable! I have all the mixed-feeling bout him but negative are more than positive feelings!i felt so insecure in this marriage & i ve no confident wif him at all. my heart aer yelling for his love & support but he dun seems to understand. i can't bear to leave him cos i reali love him & i'm very much attached to him but i'm not happy,i felt so helpless & lonely.. How do i noe if the marriage is worth saving??Is it better for me to leave him?? i dunno..i reali dunno..to save the marriage i'm not happy but to file for divorce i can't pick up the courage..i'm so confused & desperate.. tats the torture of being in love right..yeah..i think so..juz tat i'm not fortunate to find a man tat is worthy my love.
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Are things any better this week?<P>Have you read emotional needs and lovebusters?<P>Resolving conflict. Maybe write down the conflicts, and decide to stick to one issue?<P>Have you read the basic concepts, and have you learned about successful negotiating?<P>You don't do anything with out a policy of joint agreement. You need to stick to the rule of honesty.<P>
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