My husband and I got married three months ago. And now I don't know if we will make it to six months. Before we got married we had problems because I was not always truthful with him. I never cheated on him I just didn't always tell him the whole thing on my past and everyday stuff. Well everything was suppose to be okay when we got married but it wasn't. I am always beening accused of cheating on him in the past. There are very few places I go by myself to. I feel like I am losing myself and him. What can I do to prove to him I was never with anyone else? Somebody please help me!

I'm sorry for your troubles. One of the most important things in a good marriage is the ability to be completely honest and trust each other. <P>There are many good areas on this website that discuss the importance of honesty and communication in marriage. I suggest you go to the beginning page and look up the various articles by Dr. Harley about this.<P>Apparently your husband has either caught you in not relaying the whole truth, or he has instinctive feelings that tell him you're not telling him everything. <P>If it involves him in someway, I suggest you come clean. If it doesn't, it may be necessary just to explain that there are things in your past that you're not proud of and that you didn't want him to think badly of you, and that's why you weren't forthcoming. <P>I haven't used the telephone counseling service offered by this website, but based on other people's experience it has been tremendously helpful to see the situation clearly. <P>Read everything on this site, and get Dr. Harley's books if you haven't already. <P>I wish you much luck and my prayers are with you.