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#55513 05/31/00 03:55 PM
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I'll make thus quick. I've been married for almost 6 yrs. I love my husband with all my heart and soul. But a few days ago, he told me he didn't feel we could be togther any more. He said he has no more trust in me due to lies I have told him in the past and not manageing our monies properly. I don't want to loose him. He says he still cares and loves me and will still be there for me and the kids. but he can't live in the same house as me. What I want to know is is it possibble to rebuild trust ? <P>I know it's a long hard journey to do, but can it be done?<P>Please help me someone.<P><BR>
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#55514 07/16/00 08:53 AM
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As we do not know what you have done to lose trust it is hard to comment. I would suggest that you may need to work on you and be prepared that when you do lie that sometimes it just gets too much for some people.<P>You can build trust but remember the next time round it is harder and harder as there is a foundation that you have built with. It is harder to build trust back up as it is so easy to lose it. There is a limit that once you have stepped over no longer can come back.<P>How can you build trust, well the proof is in the tasting. SHOW HIM!!<P>Good luck
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#55515 07/26/00 01:49 PM
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I speak from experience about lying about money. My ex-husband and I had many, many money problems and I used to lie to ease the way. I would not tell him we had trouble as to not aggravate him. But, he was just as much to blame as I! He didn't want to "hear" the problems, only that everything was right. He would not get involved in money because it stressed him too much, plus he was a very abusive, verbally and physically, man. So, I lied to basically protect myself and to keep things on a positive note. <P>My question to you is, how is he with you? Is the lying out of fear, or is it because of yourself?<P>Let me know!

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