My wife and I have been having problems in our marriage for several years, my wife kept in all of her hurt inside until a few months ago we stated fighting all the time she would stay at her girlfriends house over night. For the past 2 Months she has not been coming home on friday nights, we also have not made love in a long time she tells me that she fell out of love wiith me.<P>For the past few weeks the fighting has stoped and she is starting to say I love to me alot more, her effection is still not there. She tells me that she needs more time to heal but she wants to move forward and not go back to our old selves. I am olways hugging and kissing her and trying to hold her in bed, am I rushing things to much? I am trying very hard to get our marrige back together is this driving her farther away?<P>I am not sure how to handle this.<P>Please HELP<BR>

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