I wish someone would help me? My wife left me about a month ago and I have tried to get her back. Anyway the issue is that i complain to her to much and was on her back. We have been married only a year, and she does don't want to try, I have offered everything to her. Plus in addition to all of this i was Told i had cancer, which did not help my mental state any. I did not get very much support from her. Due to that I file for divorce, I thought this is what she wanted. She got real mad. I was surpise, to say the least. She said she needed time. But she will not give me the time of day. I sent love letters, Flowers, everthing. I ask why she want try, all she says is that ïts just me. What does that mean? I am very frustrated. I have read a book called relationship rescue, its good, but I can not try anything in the book because she will not make to see me. What am I suppose to do?<P>------------------<BR>

File for divorce. The fact that she was indifferent toward you during your illness shows her true feelings. The marital problems should have been put aside to support you. Her issue with you is trivial compared to having to deal with cancer. In my opinion this is inexcusable.