Can someone answer this question for me?<P>If you wife is thinking about seperation or even the big ( D ) when would she take off her ring or would she take off her ring. We have been seperated for about a month now she ask me to give her some space and some time and that is what i have done we have a three year old child that we both love very much and we have been spliting the time with him sometimes when he is with me for two or three days when it's time to take hime back to her we have a big problem he does'nt want me to leave and he does'nt want to stay, when my wife picked him up from school on Wednesday he made a big deal out of it because he wanted to see me so my wife asked me how i thought this was working i told her that i was not sure at times i think things are fine and other times i don't a week ago i called to see how things were going and she began to cry because our child was throwing tantrums and was out of control i understand that this is all my fault because of my actions and we both realise that our child understands that his father is not in the house at this time. I was the one who did the disciplining. Could someone give me an idea on how to begin plan (A).<P>