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We can go up to 2 weeks with my spouse not allowing one single touch. I asked my spouse if the problem was me or if it was anything I could do to make our love making better. My spouse states "I'm just not into it now and I just don't want to half do it. I want to give you a 100% when we do come together." Now I can understand that point. But what I don't understand is does it take a day, week, month, year to give your spouse 100% everyday. I thought that is what you were supposed to do not only with sex but everything. So I am at my wits end. I have tried all sorts of romance. Do I just have to face the fact that I am doomed to be sexually DEPRIVED for the rest of my marriage.
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I don’t know how I ended up in this area, just looking around I guess. I hope this helps. I would recommend that you purchase a copy of His Needs/Her Needs and the workbook that goes along with it. I would venture to guess the both of you are failing to meet some of each others essential needs. Take it as a warning if you don’t get this fixed one or both of you will be over in the affair recovery groups.
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If you haven't started, start being SEXY when you go to bed. Buy nice lingerie, put on perfume when you come to bed (my husband loves that), and, if you can stand to lose some weight (my husbands pet peeve), lose it! Physical attractiveness is one of most mens top needs, and if you are not physically attractive to your husband, it can make him uninterested in sex. <P>Do something different, go get a haircut or pedicure/manicure, make yourself irresistable!!
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