I have just been told by my wife of 2 years that she is filing for divorce. My wife left me and moved out of the state a very long way. I had children drom another relationship and a difficult ex wife. My wife explained to me that the difficulties and the mistakes I made led to the seperation. When I was finaly able to talk to her concerning divorce she refused to talk about it. But finaly she said that even though she was not sure she would file. Apparently the papers have been ready for some time. I don't want this but She will not let me or work with me to try to work anything out. But yet she still says that the does not realy want a divorce. Leaving me very confused.