My husband has recently told me he no longer is in love with me. He said he loves me but isn't "in love" with me. We have been apart for 4 1/2 months due to a career choice he made. He recently relocated and does not want our daughter and me to move with him. We live 800 miles apart. He has stated that if we lived closer he could visit us. He wants to date again. He wants to date me not other people so he can feel as he did when we first began dating. He resents the fact that we have a daughter because she wasn't planned. I am so confused because he calls me every night and tells me that he loves me, but isn't sure when or if he wants me to come live with him.<P>I seem to be clinging on to false hope and am really emotionally distraught. I feel helpless. I want to work things out and he says he also does. But, how do I continue to love him when he isn't sure what he feels for me?