He kissed her he kissed her he kissed her!!!!<P>I am flamming mad. I am 25 years old and I found out on my birthday while vacationing in Vegas with my husband that he cheated on me. He has been lying to me and living a double life. I am a merchandiser and I travel for a living and I do this not because I love being away or love my job but that it is the right thing to do for us finacially. Well I just recently opened my home to a friend from high school. We have been friends for 11 years. Well she has not been telling me all the crap that has been going on while I was gone. I called her to vent while I was in Vegas since my husband had not purchased me any gifts, cards anything. Well one thing led to another in the conversation and she told me that he was a different person when I wasn't around. I asked how and it all came out.He has been drinking almost every night and smoking. He told me he had quit smoking!! Well he got drunk one night and went into the girls apartment next door and she came on to him (his side of the story)and kissed him. BUT the next two or three times he kissed her and came on to her. My best friend saw the whole thing and kept it from me and that pissed me off too but when she told me I just blew up. I went down to the casino where he was playing blackjack and told him to come upstairs. I asked him point blank did you kiss her and he said "hell no". I asked him again and he insisted saying he sweared he didn't and I said I talked to someone who saw you. Then he broke down and said he did it once. He claims he was so drunk that he didn't know what was going on and didn't remember it till days later. Then when he did he was shocked and devestated. I find that hard to believe. So I said if you do not remember it maybe you slept with her too. He insists he didn't. Not only did the story change on the flight home the next morning but so did my life and out 6 year relationship. After talking to my friend again she said the girl next store said it happened a few times. Well I asked him and told him to put his freaking thinking cap on and remember cause I wanted to hear it from him. Well he told me he kissed her three times. I just wanted to fall apart. Cause I know how intimate kisses are with and to him and I am just shocked that this man I put all of my love and trust into has betrayed me. 6 years and almost 2 years of marriage. He said at first it was because I traveled so much and was never around then later said it was because he had gained some weight and didn't feel like he still could attract people or had that edge. I feel fat, ugly and alone. He is begging me for another chance and I feel like I have watched too many talk shows cause all I can say is once a cheater always a cheater. I don't think I can ever trust him again. I have him sleeping on the couch now. This past year and a half has been so rough on us, we have really grown apart. A little over a year ago I had a miscarriage and he wasn't there for me. He emotionally shut down and ended up admitting to blaming it all on me. I went through the pain alone. Now I feel the pain four hundred times over, I am alone again and I am so lost. We moved to FL with so many hopes and dreams and here I am crying and feeling hopeless. I want to move out of this apartment complex where everyone knows my husband is a cheater...I was the last to find out.