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X<p>[This message has been edited by RJHope (edited July 16, 2001).]
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Hi RJ...<P>I'm in a similar situation though we haven't tried the counseling sessions yet. Well, at least you've acknowledged the blunder you made in the session. I'd try very hard to be an "observer" and "listener" when you're at those sessions. If you're having trouble talking outside of the counseling, being in the counseling room, you will have at least one hour where if you're quiet you can really get to the bottom of what's eating at your wife's heart... you can then address those emotional issues instead of perhaps defending yourself or whatever...<P>Cheers!<P>------------------<BR><I>As iron sharpens iron, so does one wo/man sharpen another...</I> Prov 27:17
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Remember you are doing ok<P>You are doing your best<BR>and so is she<P>You are both sensible to be going<BR>to a counsellor<P>Keep at it and go for a lovely meal<BR>afterwards, rewarding yourselves<P>You are both brave and trying hard<P>So what if you came in at the wrong<BR>moment<P>At least you were there<P>You should be proud of yourself<P>Carol<BR>Christian cousellor and friend<BR>kidnpuppetshows@hotmail.com<BR>
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