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I lied to my husband about drinking. He did not want me to and I said I wouldn't. Basicly I did it anyway thinking he would not know. Well, He did. I just want to know how I go about rebuilding the trust I threw away. He thinks I have lied about a lot of other things but I only lied about drinking. I may have been at the begining of a problem with the drinking but I don't do it anymore. This has only been two weeks ago. I now have a bigger problem he says that he dosen't care any more what I do and he says he will not set him self up to get hurt ever again. I know he thinks I have cheated on him but I have not. I lied about the drinking but I just wanted to make him happy and me too. I was wrong now how do I change it? Please help me, Pushedaway
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I'd seriously explore the issue about drinking. It could be a problem. Since you broke your promise, I'm inclined to think it may be. You will need to show due diligence in demonstrating to your husband that not only are you not lying but you are addressing what could be a problem. Truth will be known... if you haven't been with anyone else - emotionally or physically, he will eventually come to believe that. Truth, is the only way sister...<P>------------------<BR><I>As iron sharpens iron, so does one wo/man sharpen another...</I> Prov 27:17
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That's called "pontificating". Why don't you offer the lady some broken glass to crawl on?
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