I have been married for a little over a year now. I am 25, my husband 32. We are both huge animal lovers and have several dogs, which are our kids.<P>Last night a friend called me around 10:30 PM. When I got off the phone my husband said he didn't like people calling that late and that I need to tell people not to call me that late, including my parents, unless it was an emergency.<BR>This made me angry. Who was he to tell me I had a phone curfue? That's not right! I am a big person now and I don't need another DAD in my life...one is plenty enough.<BR>We got into an argument about the fact that I was not going to allow him to tell me when I could and couldn't talk on the phone. This also threw me off guard because he has never been bossy or made demands of me. The arugment escaladed and turned into yelling. Well, it became very ugly, on his part. We had a dog die last week. He had been sick for a while, had gone to the vets, been put on medications, etc. I was so upset when he passed away. Well all of the sudden it was MY fault our dog died. My husband said that if I was a better person, I would have done more for him and he'd still be alive. He said it was because of me that he was now dead. I did what I could, I'm not a vet. I did what my vet recommended and all that I new was right. This HURT so bad when he blamed me for the death of my precious friend. My husband then continued to yell, uncontrollably about all the stuff I was to blame for, and half of it I have no control over. Everything became my fault. I was so upset. He appologized this morning, for all the awful things he said to me and that he didn't know why he said them or why he blew up at me. This was our first true fight and I feel so different now. I have SO much hurt and anger towards him....I don't know if I can ever forget the mean things he said. I know I should forgive him..but how. How do I forget all the awful things he said about me? Please help.<BR>