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Joined: Aug 2001
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He says he is not in love with me any more. I think he thinks he is in love with the OW. I have told him he has to separtate himself from,he said he can not at this time. Plan B?? No contact at all?? Help! I love my husband and want him back 100%.

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I am really new here, but I do feel your pain! Truly I do! But in my experience you can not force someone to love you no matter how bad it hurts you inside. You have to let them go & find out that their life course holds for them.....while at the same time you are learning, experiencing & living your life course. I have learned love hurts at times, but feels good at times also...please hang in there!!

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HI, FFL,<BR>How about trying Plan A first? My advice is simple: LOVE him. Show him you love him by focusing on him right now. Believe me, Plan A truly can work. It worked for me and my H, and now the OW is just a dim memory and one I choose not to dwell on. What he does with his memories is his business, but I refuse to allow anyone or anything to come between us again.<P>I'm going to keep on doing Plan A and use it as a good life's plan. <P>Oh yes...and pray. Ask God to help you, and He will. He led you here, didn't He? It's a good start!!<P>Good luck and prayers being sent your way,<BR>Winny [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Winnytoo (edited August 07, 2001).]


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