I am all out of ideas. My husband has gone into a serious funk since reaching the age of 40. We are now functioning like room-mates. He maintains a normal life until he gets home and then it is coma city. Hours are spent watching sports, playing video games, on the internet and viewing porno in all forms (video & photos). We still do this together and have fun but it like best friends. There is no affection and no sex in my house. We have talked, read text on the subject together etc. Each time he has told me that he loves me and he is not interested in having an affair but just what the problem is he just cant explain. I am left lost and dont know what to do anymore. This has really messed up my head. I want to help him, us and even go for therapy but it takes two. I search my brain trying to be the problem solver except I dont have a clue of what the problem really is.....I am lost. Any one heard of a story like this before???? Please share. Thanks [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

Hi!<P>I have heard of this. I believe it is Midlife crisis that your husband is experiencing, though I am no expert. Please search the net for more advice, because I would just confuse you!!<P>Love and light,<P>Jacky

Thank you Nina Too, I will look into that subject on this site for a better understanding.