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Desperate seeking help
#57626 02/01/02 08:38 PM
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Hi, First time posting, I have been married for 7 years now, As per our religion marriages are done by out elders or seniors, I married my wife without meeting her, We had bad start of our marriage but with time things changed, we developed liking for each other and started to have affection and intimacy for each other, My wife wants to have a baby, But because of my certain Medical problems I am not able to perform sex,I am already visiting a doctor and currently under medication, I have been trying to perform a regular sex for last 2 months only but of no avail. All of a sudden she decided to be in Withdrawal stage and wants to get seperated from me, I want to save this marriage because I do love her and care for her. I am desperately looking for a help, any feedback will be of immense help<p>Thanks
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I am sorry for your problems. I wonder if there is not other things missing besides her wanting a baby. Certainly, she may well be missing sex itself (though, hopefully you can "bridge the gap" with manual/oral means). <p>Have you talked about your feelings and hers together?
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Thanks for the reply, I am trying to convince her not to break the marriage, and try negotiating our life. She blames to be a liar , because in the past I have withheld lof of information which did not concern her, I didn't tell her so that she may not feel discourage. I have made wrong assumptions in past, but with time I have realised the fact it is very important to talk to her before I make any assumption. I am on the track of changing my self, but she still blaims to be a liar. I have suggested her, that we should visit a counsellor for help but she is not ready for that, does it makes sense if I go to the counseling alone initially and also how do I convince her that I have changed. She says that I am very self centered since I am not letting her go. Please provide with some help <p>Thanks
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If it's just having a baby there is a process called artifical insemination. Which I'll not go into here. Ask your doctor. As kam said sexual gratification can take many forms. Experiment if she will. May I ask what is your religion? E-mail me.

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